Tuesday, May 30, 2006

How Bad Do I Want It?

I could dress like a slut too- walk around flaunting myself for all to see . . . But what would be achieved in doing that? I'd gain new 'friends' and 'popularity', but for what? All for claiming to be someone I'm not? Not only would it be a pointless act, but it would be degrading, and an endeavour I do not wish to partake in.

-enjoying life does not always mean being in the spotlight-

13 comments:

Astley said...

EXACTLY...I like the way I am...and if people can't accept that, well then, they're the ones missing out (and aren't worth it if you ask me).

neal said...

but everyone loves a skank...

Lauren said...

thanks for the support neal :P

Anonymous said...

I'd love a skank

Anonymous said...

not all skanks are bad people, stop judging others and look at the way you are living your life. You aren't perfect either!

neal said...

Being a skank has nothing to do with ebing a good or a bad person...

But it really says something about a person who is willing to use their body as a means to get attention.

I can't really speak from experience, but I think it would be degrading to know that people are looking at me because of how much of my tits are on display...

Lauren said...

Thankyou Neal.
I couldn't have said it better myself, except that being a girl- i know what it's like to have people notice me only because of my boobs . . . it makes one feel so inferior! There is more to people than their bodies, and i think that todays generation has to learn that.

Anonymous said...

It's just kind of sad to see someone judging the way others live their lives the way you are hot pink snow angel. The original statement just seems a little hypocritical when I read it

-J said...

So mr Anonymous is back, I really hope your not the same person from before

Astley said...

And you aren't judging us? What's so bad about wanting to dress decently. We can be who we are without worrying that some creap is going to look us up and down or rape/molest us as we walk down the street. And we don't have to worry about tempting others into thinking and fantasizing about things they shouldn't be. Why is it so wrong to be happy and proud that we can and want to do that. Nothing.

If you have a problem with that, then, well, it's YOUR problem...especially if you don't even have the guts to stand behind what you say by being anonymous.

Wow guys! I can't believe it...I was actually really serious on a blog! I'm done...I don't like it so much :0P

neal said...

I must say, what a sad and pathetic life a person must have to go around attempting to insult people on their blogs, hiding behind the 'anonymous' tag like it's a safety blanket...

Are you afraid we might stop liking you as a friend?

Does the idea of having to stand up for the words you speak scare you?

Would you feel like a tough guy if we were to find out who you are?

There is nothing wrong with Lauren's initial statement; that popularity does not need to come at the cost of dignity. When members of the opposite sex want to be around you because of the person you are and not the clothing you're wearing or the body parts you're exposing, then you have nothing left to prove.

There is a difference between being comfortable with your body, wearing clothing that makes you feel good about yourself, and wearing clothing with the sole purpose of drawing attention to your assets, making yourself the object of desire for every post-pubecent male in the room.

And if you can't accept that, then why do you even bother?

Astley said...

wow...this is quite the discussion you got us going on here Lauren...you gotta teach me. :0)

Anonymous said...

lol. 12 comments off of one blog... well, 13 including mine.

Good job. Way to say something controversial ;o) Always gets people riled. Try a pro-Hitler comment next... maybe something on abortion :op lol.

Ok - I'm done being stupid... glad to hear you're still alive and kicking. And commenting! The comments are appreciated... you seem to be one of the only ones as of late.

So... come to the stamped on the 7th. We'll reunite once again :o)